Adapting the winning attitude consists deeply on self knowledge and self awareness.Adapting the winning attitude starts from monitoring your behavior, keeping yourself and your emotion in check, it is about having faith in yourself to the full extent that no matter what happens and what is being thrown at you, you will prevail and succeed. Once you implement this as core belief as part of who you are, once it becomes second nature you will stop doubting yourself, you will have a vision of where you want to be, you are goal oriented, therefore motivated and focused.
Having a winning attitude is to think of the bigger picture and when nothing seems to work in your favor it is necessary to remind yourself who you are, what is your purpose and to have confidence, knowing you are still on the right path even if difficulties appear.
The winning attitude is something you acquire through experience and failure. The difference between a winner and a loser is that a winner has failed more times than the beginner has even tried. We are hardwired as humans to appear in society striving for perfection and we are thought that failing is bad, this is the reason many people these days do not achieve great things we are associating failure with ourselves and we experience pain, this is the reason why many of us do not even strive and achieve greatness. We have been thought to give up too fast if something is not working as soon as we are expecting it, the way we are expecting it.
If we make it a habit to see every failure as a step closer to success then we are able to see any bad situation in a new light and we are able to deal with it more efficiently. The issue in today's society is that every successful person we see or talk to we make an excuse as to why they realized that, logical or emotional responses, because its easier to rationalize because someone has realized this or that, than to realize and reflect that, wait a second I am able to do that too, usually with our ego being at play we come up with irrational explanations in order to not feel hurt. Ask yourself, when was the last time a sportsman, an actor, scientist or anyone professional who is pushing the boundaries of possibility today, shared with you their path of failure until they ever succeeded, I can guarantee you not many, and I also know that they failed countless times.
You and everyone else should make it their life goal to strive for success and win, push the boundaries of the norm and be an example to others.
“Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go just remember how far you have come.
“We receive three educations, one from our parents, one from our school masters, and one from the world.